Conflict Influencer® Online Class

Practical skills for handling high-conflict people. Now moving to a self-paced, on-demand format.

The Conflict Influencer® Class is being rebuilt as an on-demand class so you can learn the full method on your own schedule, from any device. The on-demand class is coming soon, and enrollment will open when it launches.

If you're exhausted by endless texts, constant fighting, or the dread of dealing with someone difficult, this class gives you the tools to take back your time and energy. You'll learn the proven Conflict Influencer® method used by therapists, mediators, HR professionals, and people just like you to de-escalate conflict, communicate strategically, and influence even the most difficult situations toward calm.

What you'll learn: BIFF Responses® for hostile emails and texts. EAR Statements to calm upset people and shift toward problem-solving. CalmB4Think to manage your own reactions. SLIC Solutions for setting limits and imposing consequences. Proposal strategies that move conversations toward solutions.

Who it's for: anyone (age 18 or above) dealing with a high-conflict co-parent, ex-partner, family member, or difficult person in everyday life.

Want to know when it launches? Email [email protected] and we'll let you know as soon as enrollment opens.

Add-on (highly recommended): join the Conflict Influencer® Online Community to go deeper on each skill, get support from other members, and interact with Megan directly.

What Past Students Say

"I am so grateful I happened upon the High Conflict Institute and the Conflict Influencer Co-parenting classes. After having just finished with a custody battle our nerves were fried, we'd lost sight of how to handle things well, and we saw no way back to peace in dealing with my husband's ex-wife. This course shed so much light on his ex's high-conflict personality type and truly brought us back to a mentally healthy baseline. Achieving that realization allowed us to pull back and see what was really happening, it helped us calm our minds, and gave us real skills to influence the conflict. Months later, we are still using the tools I learned, and it has made an incredible difference. Thank you, Megan, Bill and everyone at the HCI who made this possible!" - Stepmother

"First and foremost, it gave me peace of mind; I often felt like I was in the twilight zone with the things my husband's ex-wife was doing and saying, but being able to use what I learned with HCI helped me to see what was going on and deal with it in the best way possible. Secondly, the tools, i.e. BIFFing, are priceless and make such a difference in dealing with HC people. The weekly sessions of simply working through exercises and talking with others in the same situation — it was my therapy for about 6 months! I think Megan and Bill have a great thing going on here. Their lessons are backed by great science, they put it all together so beautifully and easy to understand for anyone, and the interactions with Megan online always calmed me and lightened whatever situation I was in at the time. Truly a saving grace that I found the HCI." - Victoria

"The class helped us understand the high-conflict personality pattern. That knowledge allows us to use the skills presented in the class rather than just get angry. We enjoyed hearing Megan's reaction to specific struggles that the students in the class were experiencing. We are very impressed by Megan's thorough knowledge of all of the topics presented in class. In addition to the class, Megan has helped us immensely with our high-conflict child." - Alba