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For Legal Cases
30-Minute Consultation for Legal Cases
We can help when you are uncertain about how to handle a high-conflict legal case, whether you are represented by legal counsel or not. Optional: 30-minute document review.
60-Minute Consultation for Legal Cases
We can help when you are uncertain about how to handle a high-conflictย legal case,ย whether you are represented by legal counsel or not. Optional: 30-minute document review.
For All Other Situations
30-Minute Consultation forย any high-conflict situation
We can help when you are uncertain about how to handle a high-conflict dispute, dilemma, or situation, any of which are often confusing and debilitating.ย Optional: 30-minute document review.
60-Minute Consultation forย any high-conflict situation
We can help when you are uncertain about how to handle a high-conflict dispute, dilemma, or situation, any of which are often confusing and debilitating.ย Optional: 30-minute document review.
Questions About 1:1 Consultations?
Where do consultation happen?
Consultation takes place over Zoom or by phone so you can easily join in from the comfort of your own home.
What is the difference between LEGAL ADVICE and CONSULTATION?
Conflict Influencer does not give legal advice or base consultations on application of law and legality. Our consultations are based on education in high conflict individuals and situations, and managing the damage they can cause. Of course,ย if you have an attorney you are welcome to have them present for the consultation.
What documents should I send to prepare for my consultation?
Send only the most relevant documents that pertain to your consultation (if they exist). These typically include legal documents, communication threads (email, texts, and others) or other written communication. Our consultants take 30 concentrated minutes to review relevant documents. In more complex situations, some clients opt for a package that includes more review time.
Do you refer clients and other people to attorneys?
No. While we work a great deal with the legal community, we recommend interviewing three or more attorneys in your area before making the personal decision of who to work with. Your local Bar Association or Law Society are a solid resource for getting started and may have recommendations for attorneys experienced in high conflict cases.ย
Do you offer therapy or refer clients and other people to therapists?
No. We do not offer therapeutic advice as part of our consultations. Consider interviewing three or more therapists before making the personal decision of whom to work with.
What's the Conflict Influencer Consultation Confidentiality Policy?
Conflict Influencer consultants will keep all consultation information confidential, per our Consultation Agreement, and will not voluntarily release confidential information.
Choosing a lawyer, therapist or other professional is a personal preference. Professional confidentiality is governed by state laws which are somewhat similar across the US. Consultants have neither obligations nor protections as Educational Consultants. Mandated reporters are only those specifically set forth in the state laws.
Regarding obligations, for example, California Clinical Social Workers are only mandated to report child abuse and elder abuse when serving in the role of social worker. Lawyers, mediators and consultants are not listed as mandated reporters. When speakers/consultants give an Educational Consultation on general patterns of high-conflict behavior and general methods of dealing with them, we are not mandated reporters and will keep all consultation information confidential, according to our Consultation Agreement, except as described below.
Regarding protections, we will not voluntarily release confidential information. However, because consultants are not serving as lawyers or therapists or mediators, we cannot block proper subpoenas from lawyers and court orders from judges to release written information or to testify in court.
An option in cases where our consultation client has a lawyer, in the lawyerโs discretion, our consultant can be hired directly by the lawyer and therefore have confidentiality under the lawyerโs โwork productโ privilege for all conversations we have with the lawyer and/or the client.
How to set boundaries with a high-conflict co-parent?
High conflict people don't stop themselves. A co-parent can set a boundary with their co-parent by sticking to the Parenting Plan (or other court orders); and by creating structure and routine. Our SLIC Solutions method (Setting Limits & Imposing Consequences) helps co-parents learn to set limits and impose consequences.
How to set boundaries with a narcissistic co-parent?
High conflict people don't stop themselves. A co-parent can set a boundary with their co-parent by sticking to the Parenting Plan (or other court orders); and by creating structure and routine. Our SLIC Solutions method (Setting Limits & Imposing Consequences) helps co-parents learn to set limits and impose consequences.
How to set boundaries with a narcissistic co-parent?
High conflict people don't stop themselves. A co-parent can set a boundary with their co-parent by sticking to the Parenting Plan (or other court orders); and by creating structure and routine. Our SLIC Solutions method (Setting Limits & Imposing Consequences) helps co-parents learn to set limits and impose consequences.
How do you resolve conflict with co-parenting?
High conflict people don't stop themselves. A co-parent can set a boundary with their co-parent by sticking to the Parenting Plan (or other court orders); and by creating structure and routine. Our SLIC Solutions method (Setting Limits & Imposing Consequences) helps co-parents learn to set limits and impose consequences.