How to Handle High-Conflict People Without Making Things Worse
Become a Conflict Influencer®
COMING SOON
The Conflict Influencer® Class is becoming a self-paced, on-demand class.
Learn exactly what to say and how to respond to a high-conflict person, on your own schedule, from any device.
Pricing and launch date to be announced.
If you’re dealing with a high-conflict spouse, co-parent, family member, or difficult person, normal communication advice often makes things worse.
The Conflict Influencer® Class teaches the proven tools used by conflict specialists to de-escalate conflict, communicate strategically, and influence difficult situations toward solutions.
Soon you’ll be able to take it on demand, with self-paced video lessons you can watch on your own schedule. No set class times and no group to keep up with.
Instead of reacting emotionally, you’ll learn exactly what to say, what not to say, and how to regain influence in even the most challenging interactions.
Are You Dealing With Someone Like This?
You may be facing a situation where someone:
- escalates conflict constantly
- blames everyone else for problems
- sends hostile emails or texts
- refuses to cooperate or compromise
- twists conversations into arguments
- creates chaos in relationships, families, or workplaces
These patterns often show up with high-conflict personalities, who make up about 10% of people but create a large portion of ongoing conflict. 
Most people try to resolve these situations using normal communication skills, but those approaches often backfire.
The Conflict Influencer® method teaches specialized strategies designed specifically for high-conflict situations.
What You’ll Learn
In this class, you’ll learn the core Conflict Influencer® tools used to manage and influence difficult people.
BIFF Responses®
How to respond to hostile emails and messages in a way that stops escalation and prevents endless back-and-forth.
EAR Statements
How to calm emotionally upset people and shift conversations toward problem-solving.
CalmB4Think
How to regulate your reactions so you can respond strategically instead of getting pulled into arguments.
SLIC Solutions
How to set limits and impose consequences without triggering further conflict.
Proposal Strategies
How to move conversations toward solutions instead of endless disputes.
By the end of the class, you’ll have a clear framework for managing high-conflict situations anywhere: at home, with co-parents, in relationships, or at work.
WHO THIS CLASS IS FOR
This class is designed for people dealing with:
High-Conflict Co-Parenting
Hostile ex-partners, custody disputes, or constant communication battles.
Toxic or Escalating Relationships
Partners who blame, manipulate, or escalate disagreements.
Family Conflict
Difficult parents, siblings, step-family dynamics, or ongoing family tension.
Difficult People in Everyday Life
Coworkers, neighbors, community members, or anyone who repeatedly creates conflict.
If you dread dealing with a certain person, this class is likely for you.
What Makes This Different
Most conflict advice focuses on better communication.
But high-conflict situations require something different.
People with high-conflict patterns often operate with:
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unmanaged emotions
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extreme behaviors
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all-or-nothing thinking
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persistent blaming of others
That means traditional advice like “just talk it out” often fails.
The Conflict Influencer® method teaches how to respond differently so you can influence the situation rather than escalate it.
What to Expect in the Class
✔ Self-paced video lessons you can watch anytime
✔ Start when you’re ready, with no set class times
✔ Real-life scenarios and examples
✔ Tools you can use immediately
✔ Additional resources to keep
✔ Ongoing support in the Community (optional)
Become a Conflict Influencer®
Learn how to communicate strategically, reduce escalation, and regain control of difficult situations.
The Conflict Influencer® Class is the best place to start.
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